Yesterday have been kinda crazy for me,which i dont feel comfortabale to talk about just yet,but i had a good talk with one of my friend tho,and i wouldnt mind sharing,This was our topic..
*WHY WOMEN SHOULD BE INDEPENDENT?*
Being independent could actually profits both you and your man at the same time. Men always need his own space when he hangs out with friends, do his hobbies, and etc. Independent women usually have their own activities that could improve their thoughts to be smarter and definitely be more aware for their surroundings even if those activities of us, women, won't fit well with men's ones. (unless they share the same preferences set) It also means both sides has the freedom to do what they like.
I found a few good quotes here.
" Freedom is the will to be responsible to ourselves." - Nietzsche, Twilight of the Idols, 1888
" There are two freedoms - the false, where a man is free to do what he likes; the true, where he is free to do what he ought." - Charles Kingsley
" The individual woman is required a thousand times a day to choose either to accept her appointed role and thereby rescue her good disposition out of the wreckage of her self-respect, or else follow an independent line of behavior and rescue her self-respect out of the wreckage of her good disposition."- Jeannette Rankin
Back to where we started. Independent also means financially independent. It's better and safer to find ways to protect ourselves financially. In another word, we manage what we earn. Today's world, women can achieve the same amount of money as men or even a better position than men. "Think positive. Be positive." I'm trying to tell myself that, especially when there is a sign of stress running though my head. Humans have always needed stress but not too much of it.
And another news,i have had make a major decision due to some changes in my life,i have decided to stay on in asia,and moving on to bangkok thailand,well to do what i have to do.I will definately update these on my blog from time to time,and most of all,i wanna thanks all my dear friends and my bro who always been here for me unconditionly and supported every decision i have made no matter how not rational sometimes it seem!
I love you dear brother!
isnt he's silly!lol
And everybody think my baby Santa is in need of a diet!what do u guys think?? (",)
Haha,im kinda fallen,but i'll be back up in no time!