Crazy Day

Yesterday have been kinda crazy for me,which i dont feel comfortabale to talk about just yet,but i had a good talk with one of my friend tho,and i wouldnt mind sharing,This was our topic..

*WHY WOMEN SHOULD BE INDEPENDENT?*



Being independent could actually profits both you and your man at the same time. Men always need his own space when he hangs out with friends, do his hobbies, and etc. Independent women usually have their own activities that could improve their thoughts to be smarter and definitely be more aware for their surroundings even if those activities of us, women, won't fit well with men's ones. (unless they share the same preferences set) It also means both sides has the freedom to do what they like.

I found a few good quotes here.

" Freedom is the will to be responsible to ourselves." - Nietzsche, Twilight of the Idols, 1888

" There are two freedoms - the false, where a man is free to do what he likes; the true, where he is free to do what he ought." - Charles Kingsley

" The individual woman is required a thousand times a day to choose either to accept her appointed role and thereby rescue her good disposition out of the wreckage of her self-respect, or else follow an independent line of behavior and rescue her self-respect out of the wreckage of her good disposition."- Jeannette Rankin


Back to where we started. Independent also means financially independent. It's better and safer to find ways to protect ourselves financially. In another word, we manage what we earn. Today's world, women can achieve the same amount of money as men or even a better position than men. "Think positive. Be positive." I'm trying to tell myself that, especially when there is a sign of stress running though my head. Humans have always needed stress but not too much of it.

And another news,i have had make a major decision due to some changes in my life,i have decided to stay on in asia,and moving on to bangkok thailand,well to do what i have to do.I will definately update these on my blog from time to time,and most of all,i wanna thanks all my dear friends and my bro who always been here for me unconditionly and supported every decision i have made no matter how not rational sometimes it seem!

I love you dear brother!



isnt he's silly!lol

And everybody think my baby Santa is in need of a diet!what do u guys think?? (",)





Haha,im kinda fallen,but i'll be back up in no time!

Men!!

Regardless if they are 3 or 30 years old,they are really just a lil kid at heart,lol
why would i say that?first ,i live with a 4 year old lil kiddy cat name Santa..u tell me if he act like a kid or not!




acting all cute like a kid..



sulking like a lil kid..who couldnt get to eat his candies..



hiding under the cover like a lil kid!



sleeping with me like a lil kid!

Then there's my bro!



he thought he look all cute acting like a silly kid!lol

And then there is Francis..

Francis Chen: Hi. My name is Francis. I'm a Cancer... and I'm gonna put a baby in you.

who post nosensical stuff like this on facebook like a lil kid,lol

Ps,
sorry baby,dont be mad!!it's just an example!lol..
See..all this..just prove,men regardless of what age they are,they act like a kid!pls dont get me wrong,it not a bad thing tho!cos i need them to act like a kid at time afterall so i can laugh like a lil kid! lol



me playin with a bunch of bananas like a lil kid!

Get Drunk

Get drunk!
Stay drunk!
On wine, virtue, poetry, whatever!"

Rin Yamada


But for god sake, please dont tripped!!




Cheers!

Warning !!

When I am an old woman I shall wear purple
With a red hat which doesn't go, and doesn't suit me.
And I shall spend my pension on brandy and summer gloves
And satin sandals, and say we've no money for butter.
I shall sit down on the pavement when I'm tired
And gobble up samples in shops and press alarm bells
And run my stick along the public railings
And make up for the sobriety of my youth.
I shall go out in my slippers in the rain
And pick flowers in other people's gardens
And learn to spit.







You can wear terrible shirts and grow more fat
And eat three pounds of sausages at a go
Or only bread and pickle for a week
And hoard pens and pencils and beermats and things in boxes.



But now we must have clothes that keep us dry
And pay our rent and not swear in the street
And set a good example for the children.
We must have friends to dinner and read the papers.

But maybe I ought to practice a little now?
So people who know me are not too shocked and surprised
When suddenly I am old, and start to wear purple.

Rin Yamada

Ps,
Now im gonna scare away all my future husband wannabe..lol..not to worry,this is only written from the eccentric white woman point of view,as for us asian women,we ages old with dignity and pride..pls dont call me racist,if you will and want to call me something,just call me an proud asian woman.

A Thought on Thought

I think that all higher animals - primates, mammalian and ornithic pets, etc. 'think' to a certain extent.

Why do I think?
There is no alternative.
I am condemned to think,
To be obsessed with thinking—
But so is my cat.



Rin Yamada

does my cat actually think??

This is what happen when im sick and cant do shit and bored outa my fuckin mind,lol
Some of you might think i think too much,i admit i do esp when i have nothin to do,and when i am sick..im a lil delirious..lol..or maybe im just weird..

Im feelin slightly better now,but i still sound like a man!lol..i cant sing.. :( so when im not thinking,im practicing my guitar,and now my fingers are kinda hurting too..less than a week now till im back home,my bro called me and told me my dad brought me a new car,honda civic si coupe,totally not my style,i wonder if he gonna get mad at me if i do a trade in..

ps,

And daddy.if u r reading this now,i wanna say,it so sweet of u!i misses u and cant wait to see u! xoxoxo your daughter love you!

Sick

Yea,im sick right now,got the flu,fever,sore throat,cough,u name it i got it,im kinda drowsy and a lil high from the cough mixture as im writting this blog,i guess i dont have much to say now except..sickness be gone!im coming home in a week..i dont wanna be sick!I'll write again when im feeling better i suppose.

Update,
I met a new friend who's is coming to La to do djing works..pretty kool person with a strange nickname radio spider ^^but still a nice person aferall..he is kinda funny too..

'People I met with'

The Conductor:

With eyes opened wide
looked for the poor man;
With no reservation at that late night
Demanded 50 bucks to have his seat.
What a pity!

The Postman:

A Gentleman! with sarcastic smile
Stepped in; Candidates signature is must!
Being the argument:
Demanded 30 bucks to handover the call letter.
What a pity!

The traffic Police:

Another Gentleman, with full rage
Caught the first pray early in the morning,
Grabbing the driving license,
Demanded 300 bucks to return it.
What a pity!

Rin Yamada

ps,
Fuchsia Lane at ION art gallery 4th floor
I really enjoyed the events and actually brought a dress,the designer is simply fabulous!he gave me gift just for attending,isnt its nice?



here are some of fabulous dresses he design..









and i brought this dress..dont ask me the price,but i got a pretty good discount for it!

And we went down to a Japanese restaurant near Fullerton hotel for a something to eat right after ION.



The food was really delicious, and the atmosphere made me want to stay there even longer..











hopefully i be back soon someday..



and Rex thanks for attending the event with me (^.^)